Great idea to observe Mother's birthday this way, Geege! (while also wishing a very happy July 23 to birthday boy Scott....!) Here's a little story that I'd like to share.
I was a junior in high school, so that would have been the winter of 1973. Mother was particularly trim and stylish during that era -- she had a terrific swooped-back-from-the-forehead hairstyle, with hardly any gray. She'd really been enjoying shopping in Omaha around that time, too, and she had some really great clothes.
I had some sort of banquet or something at school one evening -- I think it was for the Spanish club, and it was a potluck, but of course I had forgotten to tell her I needed to bring something to contribute. I must have called her from school earlier, and she said of course she'd bring something over to the high school before the banquet started. I was aware I shouldn't have waited till the last minute.
I was working on decorations in the high school cafeteria after school -- Joe will remember that our cafeteria was very long and narrow. I was at one end and looked up at here came Mother walking in a very sprightly manner down that long room. She was smiling and carrying a sack from Hinky Dinky. My first thought was relief that she was smiling and therefore not mad about the last-minute request! But then all I could think was -- "Oh, wow, she is such a beautiful woman!"
And she really was. Confident, happy. She was wearing the high-heeled boots she wore a lot that winter, and was somewhat dressed up - she must have been at bridge club earlier that afternoon. (Which was also why she just went to Hinky Dinky and bought me a container of potato salad - hey, no time to make something from scratch, she had things to do!) She looked fantastic -- not only in appearance, but with that big happy smile. Her eyes twinkled a little bit -- I must have had a sheepish look on my face for being in a jam, but her smile let me know that it was no big deal.
She brought that Hinky Dinky sack all the way down to me, gave me a quick hug and kiss, and told me to have fun, and asked if I needed a ride home later. I remember being so glad that all my friends were around - usually at that age, your folks are just embarrassing, but at that moment I was just so proud of her!
I remember not one moment of the Spanish club banquet that followed that night, but I will always remember the first time I remember feeling not just love, but true
admiration for my mother.